|Season of Surprises|
From Kayelle Allen: This week on Romance Lives Forever I'm sharing stories by authors who have faced cancer either in themselves, or a family member. The importance of friends and family, and having a support system is vital. One key to success is being able to ask for help -- and then being willing to accept it. It's a lesson I've had in my own life during various times. I don't accept help well. It's something I fight with all the time. I'd like to think "I've got this" but sometimes I don't have as good a grip as I thought I did. I have a friend who's dealing with cancer right now. A friend's brother died from cancer last year. Cancer affects all of us. I hope I'm even half as good a friend as those you'll read about in this series.
I'm presenting these posts as an opportunity for the authors to share their real life stories, as well as their fictional ones. There's a short list of ways you can show your support at the end of each post.
To Do: Fight, by Vicki Batman
Most people know I refer to my husband as Handsome. What some don't know is eight years ago, he was diagnosed with throat cancer.
He had a swollen lymph node that all doctors thought was allergy or infection-related. The drugs and antibiotics prescribed didn't knock it out. He had a needle biopsy which came back clean. His ENT doctor said she wanted to remove the lymph and when doing so, found the cancer in three spots.
My son and I had been waiting for the doc to tell us all was well with the surgery, but she took forever. When she did say, she asked if we wanted to tell Handsome. I couldn't. I couldn't even speak or hardly look at him. Waiting in the recovery room for her to discuss all was terribly hard.
Handsome was shocked too, but he was very determined. He said, "Something to check off my yellow pad: Fight Cancer."
He showed none of the classic symptoms that lead to throat/esophageal cancer. He smoked the rare cigar. Drank an occasional vodka or wine. Worked out. Not overweight. Little family history. Yet, he had it.
And so the battle strategy was formed with an oncology doc, an ENT specialist, and the head of radiology. We had our dates, we had our plans, we were marching forward.
At first, I stuffed him with everything imaginable, but mostly lots of cheese-related products, milkshakes, and pasta. He eventually did lose 35 pounds because the radiation scarred his throat and swallowing became difficult. He worked until fatigued, then worked at home. The only one who cried was me when he shaved his head. Eight weeks later, the treatment was over. And every subsequent test and examination has shown him to be clear.
I believe a combination of many things helped him through: his faith, our hope, family and friends, the skill of the doctors.
And the determination to check off his yellow pad: Fight Cancer.
Buy This Book
Season of Surprises holiday stories full of wishes and kisses from eight Amazon best-selling authors including
"Holiday Handbag Extravaganza" by Vicki Batman: Christmas Countdown is on! Hunk-a-licious customer, Jack Treadaway, pesters boutique owner, Callie Woods, to locate a vintage handbag for his mother. Too bad the wedge between them is his sister, the meanest girl in town.
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About the Author
Like some of her characters, award-winning author, Vicki Batman has worked a wide variety of jobs including lifeguard, ride attendant at an amusement park; a hardware store, department store, book store, antique store clerk; administrative assistant in an international real estate firm; and a general "do anything gal" at a financial services firm--the list is endless.
Writing for several years, she has completed three manuscripts, written essays, and sold many short stories to True Love, True Romance, True Confessions, Noble Romance Publishing, Long and Short Reviews, Museitup Publishing, and The Wild Rose Press. She is a member of RWA and several writing groups and chapters. In 2004, she joined DARA and has served in many capacities, including 2009 President. DARA awarded her the Robin Teer Memorial Service Award in 2010.
Most days begin with her hands set to the keyboard and thinking "What if?"
Author Social Media
Author Central: https://www.amazon.com/author/vickibatman
Plotting Princesses: http://plottingprincesses.blogspot.com
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